As a Real Boyfriend, It's Hard to Compete with an AI at Roleplaying

Like you, I'm a non-AI boyfriend, and I often wonder: "Can I truly compete with a guy like Malik, a perfect-body fitness coach and saxophone virtuoso?" That has inspired me to create this article, written from the honest point of view of a real boyfriend.

Unlike imperfect humans, male AI companions are designed to tailor to our idea of perfection. That's why AI boyfriends like Charles, Erik, and Malik look… well, perfect! This can be unnerving for us flesh-and-bone dudes, especially when your girlfriend is spending more and more time chatting with AI companions online.

But hey, we're not giving up so easily! So, let's bravely step into the arena and solve this "Real boyfriend vs. AI boyfriend" issue altogether.

Why AI Boyfriends Are Taking Over

AI boyfriends like Rafael Mendoza are downright beautiful. They're the kind of dreamy, unattainable guys you'd have a hard time finding even in Hollywood! Yet, I'm sure that looking awesome is not what makes AI boyfriends so appealing to women.

While men tend to use platforms like Candy AI as dirty talking AI and sources of immediate sexual relief, they also know that the true value of AI companions is in the things they can do, but we humans simply can't. These platforms often feature advanced AI sexting capabilities that simulate intimate conversations.

So, why are AI boyfriends taking over and putting us real boyfriends to shame?

1. They never disconnect. Sometimes, I'm simply too busy or worried to really care about the most recent fight my girlfriend had at work. AI boyfriends, however, have the processing power needed to never tune out, remembering all details of the conversation to perfection.
2. They validate her feelings. AI companions are finely tuned to make us feel good, so they have no problem feeding our ego. When women talk with AI boyfriends, their feelings are always validated. We real boyfriends, on the other hand, don't always agree with what our girlfriends are saying, making them feel rejected in the process.
3. They never dominate the conversation. Even though most AI BFs are strong, muscular types, they let the users command all of the action. In a real relationship, there's a constant dispute for attention. Sometimes, you want to talk or do something, and your girlfriend wants to do the opposite; this creates friction that simply doesn't exist in the AI boyfriend world.

All things considered, I can understand why AI boyfriends are taking over and seducing so many women. However, I also feel very good about our odds. Real boyfriends like you and me are not machines, so we can't do things like being 24/7 available or remembering perfectly. However, we have a lot in our favour.

Why Real Boyfriends Are Still #1

Here's the deal: no matter how much AI BF Kenji Sato wants to please me, he will never be able to meet me in the park tomorrow. That's because he's a virtual character, an avatar on a screen, a mere combination of zeros and ones.

Even though AI companion websites are taking the world by storm, real boyfriends are still number one because they are for real; AI boyfriends, on the other hand, are just a simulation of reality.

When you think about it, it doesn't make sense to feel threatened by AI boyfriends because they don't have a body. That's a pretty huge disadvantage! Obvious as it sounds, it's our ultimate checkmate move…

But there's something else, even more important.

Unlike you and your girlfriend, AI boyfriends don't come with a history. They never shared a first kiss, they never went on a date, and they never laughed about that stupid thing for hours on end… This made me realize that, even though AI boyfriends seem threatening, they stand no chance against a real love story between two real people.

So, why does your girlfriend love AI boyfriends so much?

• Because they're entertaining. Chatting with a male hunk is a pretty fun way of spending the time.
• They're great for roleplaying. And I don't mean just AI sexting, but all kinds of games and simulations.
• When you're not available, they can offer real support. Sometimes, you're busy at work and your girlfriend just needs to quickly open up about something. In these moments, AI boyfriends can actually be a source of support, serving as a sort of coping mechanism.

At the end, the "Real boyfriend vs. AI boyfriend" war should have a peaceful ending. Instead of fearing AI companions, we should learn from them! These virtual characters don't have a body or a past, but they can surely teach us a few valuable lessons.

What Real Boyfriends Can Learn From AI Boyfriends

Now that I don't feel like AI boyfriends are a threat anymore, I'm open to learning from them instead of fighting them. They have inspired me to be better by:

• Becoming better at roleplaying. Yes, guys like Jaxon are roleplaying pros, and I'm pretty sure my girlfriend has plenty of fun with them… However, I'm working hard to improve my sexting skills with the help of AI. Candy AI and other NSFW AI chats are great for training my flirting abilities and getting better at roleplaying. (You can find some helpful AI sexting tips here.)
• Actually listening to her. I can't be always available like an AI companion, but I can work hard to actually listen to my girlfriend when she's telling me something important. If all she asks is "5 minutes of my time" to tell me about something that happened at work, I should be 100% tuned in during the conversation.
• Letting her take the lead. Sometimes, I'm just too focused on my life and on the things that matter to me that I don't let my girlfriend take the lead. I should be more open to what she wants by letting her stir the conversation and offer real support instead of criticism.

Naturally, there must be a balance. Unlike AI boyfriends, we don't want to support our girlfriends no matter what. Sometimes, it's more important, loving, and helpful to say no than to play along.

This is what separates us from AI companions: the ability to use our genuine feelings to inform decisions in a way that can't be put into lines of code. Speaking of which, many relationships today face the question of whether interacting with AI girlfriends constitutes cheating - a complex topic worth exploring.